When something happens in your life, you only have one choice. which is to accept it and be very optimist about it. Very optimist here means to find positive ways that can make whatever things that happen in your life look positive.Look on the brightside.The level of optimistic may vary from one people to another. The spirit, faith and effort are always become the factors measuring the level of optimism of a person.
Once you accept the thing that happens in your life positively, it is good. But when something something doesn't really become positive in a way, all we can do is to treasure,cherish and appreciate the good side of something, and wait until the time comes, where things started to fall apart.
it's acceptable, when bad things happen in your life, they do come in a very clear and vivid notice in advance. but, when they come in a short notice, and there's no time for you to fix it, you will feel the biggest regret and fear in your self. you will start to blame yourself and say impossible things; "I should have love her more.." "if only i could tell her how much i love her.." " if only i could meet him more often, please him, and hug him for the last time.." "if i listen to mom,this thing wont happen.." "Dad was true, i should have listen to him..."
we just need to appreciate more,because people don't appreciate something/someone, until they lose them, then only they know, they can never look back, and turn back time.
it is all because the clock keeps ticking the life away.
random: when i wrote this, i kept asking myself, can i fix things that already happened? then another side of me answered "Why don't you start to be extra careful,and appreciate more what you have now and don't let whatever happened in the past happen again, because if you were hurt in the past,it will be more hurtful on the second time,"
